Cinta anta anti @_@

DI PETIK DARI MAJALAH I,KELUARAN FEBRUARI 2006,OLEH USTAZ MASZLEE MALIK…

‘CINTA ANTA & ANTI…’

Cinta Remaja Dakwah.

Sebagai seorang pensyarah di IPT yang bergelar ustaz, penulis mempunyai
peluang yang menarik untuk bercampur dengan para pelajar yang menempuh zaman
muda belia mereka. Pelbagai masalah, isu dan juga pengalaman yang mereka
bawa untuk dibincangkan. Antara perkara yang sering dibawa berbincang ialah
persoalan cinta. Alaf yang serba unik telah menyaksikan bagaimana para
remaja dan belia dakwah tidak dapat lari dari fenomena cinta. Menariknya,
cinta yang mereka alami ini telah di”Islamik”kan seperti mana bank-bank,
institusi-institusi kewangan lain diislamkan. Maka timbullah istilah “Cinta
ukhwah”. Ayat-ayat dan hadis-hadis sering dijadikan alat untuk
menjustifikasikan apa yang dilakukan. Menarik lagi gejala ini menular di
kalangan mereka yang berkopiah, berserban, bertudung litup, naqib-naqibah
usrah dan mereka yang menggunakan ganti nama “ana – anta dan ana – anti”.

Sms,Yahoo Messenger, email dan lain-lain kemudahan perhubungan era ICT telah
menjadi penghubung utama cinta “anta-anti” ini. Ia lebih selamat, kerana
tidak perlu berdating seperti pasangan yang tidak Islamik. Tidak perlu
membazir tambang teksi, tambang bas dan juga membazir membeli kertas kajang
berbau wangi dan dakwat yang berwarna-warni seperti mana halnya anak-anak
muda lain yang jauh dari arus kebangkitan Islam. Bermula dengan kata-kata
tazkirah, berakhir dengan ikon senyuman, teddy bear dan kadang-kadang gambar
wanita bertudung.

Malah ada yang menjadikan kehadiran di seminar-seminar, kursus-kursus dan
juga wacana-wacana ilmiah sebagai peluang untuk berjumpa
. Bagi yang aktif
berpersatuan pula, mesyuarat-mesyuarat dan aktiviti-aktiviti persatuan
sering menjadi medan pelepas rindu. Alahai…kreatif betul anak-anak muda
dakwah alaf baru ini.

Fenomena yang berlaku ini dimeriahkan dan dikosmetikkan lagi oleh
nasyid-nasyid Melayu yang berpaksikan cinta muda-mudi. Klip-klip video
nasyid pun, tajuk-tajuk yang bombastik berbau cinta asmara. Hakikatnya,
fenomena cinta “anta-anti” ini semakin ketara dan semakin rancak. Ada yang
berakhir dengan perkahwinan, dan ada juga yang kecewa di pertengahan jalan,
dan tidak kurang juga yang telah menjerumuskan kedua-dua pasangan ke lembah
maksiat. wal’iyadhubillah…

 

Salah Faham ukhwah fillah


Teringat juga penulis kepada satu fenomena apabila seorang siswi datang
mengadu dia diusik oleh Pak Lebai. Bukan sekadar sms, kad ucapan hari lahir,
kad hari raya, malah sejambak bunga ros di hari lahir juga telah dikirimkan
oleh Pak Lebai tersebut.Tidak tahulah penulis apakah tanggapan masyarakat
terhadap fenomena seumpama ini. Yang pasti di setiap kad, sms dan di
jambangan bunga tersebut terukir kata-kata “ukhwah fillah kekal
abadi..”.sekali lagi makna ukhwah disalah gunakan.

Satu kes yang lain pula, seorang siswa meluahkan kekecewaannya apabila
dihampakan oleh seorang siswi yang satu “jemaah” dengannya. Beliau tidak
sangka setelah berpuluh-puluh minggu mereka bertukar-tukar sms dan tazkirah
melalui email, akhirnya siswi tersebut bertunang dengan orang lain yang juga
satu “jemaah” dengan mereka.
Aduh..lagi hebat daripada filem “Love Story”
yang pernah popular di tahun-tahun 70’an dahulu. Yang pasti, sekali lagi
tema “ukhwah fillah” menjadi “camouflagde” ke atas perhubungan antara dua
jantina yang ada kesedaran Islam ini.

Dalam satu insiden yang lain pula, seorang siswi pernah meminta pendapat
penulis. Seorang seniornya yang sedang menuntut di dalam IPT yang sama
dengan beliau telah bersungguh-sungguh melamarnya. Walaupun telah ditolak
lebih 20 kali, namun si teruna terus melamarnya juga.Sekali lagi slogan
“ukhwah fillah” menjadi lapik dan dijadikan bahan ugutan. Jika si siswi
tadi menolak lamarannya, maka hatinya akan hancur, dan ia bertentangan denga
mafhum hadis tadi
. Oleh kerana bersimpati dengan si senior tersebut, si
siswi terpaksa menerima lamaran itu. Menarik bukan “trend” percintaan
golongan anta-anti ini.

Seorang siswa juga pernah meluahkan kemarahannya ke atas naqib usrahnya di
bilik penulis. Mengapa tidak, tatkala di dalam usrah, berkepul-kepul dalil
dan fikrah yang dibawanya. Sampaikan ketika pertukaran ke usrah lain, si
naqib meminta siswa tadi agar berbai’ah untuk kekal di dalam perjuangan dan
tidak menyertai jemaah lain. Sayangnya, di dalam perjalanan balik kampung,
siswa tersebut nampak sang naqib berjalan berpegangan tangan dengan naqibah
sekelas mereka..
.ini yang paling menarik.Lebih hebat lagi, kedua-dua mereka
lengkap dengan aksesori berkopiah dan bertudung litup. Jika di zaman 70’an
dahulu nescaya apa yang dilakukan oleh sang naqib dan naqibah tersebut bakal
menerima cop “kafir” dari pendukung gerakan dakwah yang lain.

Di satu sudut yang lain pula, seorang siswa yang sering menceritakan
kehebatan “Abuya”nya kepada penulis, juga tidak dapat lari dari fenomena
cinta anta-anti ini. Penulis amat kagum dengan siswa yang sering muncul
dengan baju Melayu berkancing dan juga songkok berwarna-warninya ini.
Matanya yang bercelak sahaja sudah cukup untuk rakan-rakan yang lain hormat
kepada beliau. Sayangnya atas takdir Allah, ketika penulis berkunjung untuk
menziarahi beliau, penulis ternampak gambar seorang Muslimah menghiasi
desktop komputer peribadinya
. Ditanyakan sama ada itu adik, kakak ataupun
emaknya atau mungkin neneknya, beliau menafikan. Beliau terpaksa mengaku
bahawa itu adalah “kawan”nya. Yang hebatnya,
tertulis di sebelah keayuan wajah gadis tersebut “ukhwah fillah membawa ke
Jannah”.

Persoalannya, adakah fenomena ini sihat? Adakah ia sudah cukup islamik? Atau
penulis yang ketinggalan zaman sehingga naif terhadap trend muda mudi masa
kini? Ataupun fiqh Islamiyy juga perlu diubahkan untuk disesuaikan dengan
perubahan semasa
. Di dalam artikel yang terhad ini, penulis tidak berhajat
untuk memberikan hukuman mahupun pandangan terhadap fenomena yang menarik
ini. Biarlah para pembaca membuat penilaian mereka terhadap “sihat” atau
tidak sihatnya budaya ini. Semoaga ada di kalangan pembaca yang akan dapat
memberikan pandangan yang rasional serta boleh diwacanakan.

Wallahu’alam..

 
 
 
 
ukht: AiyooO.. keadaan yang sungguh menyedihkan 😦 kejahilan dalam agama dan mengikut nafsu semata-mata telah mengaburi mata manusia dalam membezakan yang baik dan buruk.. Semoga Allah mengampuni kite semua ehh? 😥
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Awareness of Allah’s Mercy

A servant [of Allah’s] committed a sin and said: O Allah, forgive me my sin.

And He (glorified and exalted be He) said: My servant has committed a sin and has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for them.

 

Then he sinned again and said: O Lord, forgive me my sin. And He (glorified and exalted be He) said: My servant has committed a sin and has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for them.

 

Then he sinned again and said: O Lord, forgive me my sin. And He (glorified and exalted be He) said: My servant has committed a sin and has known that he has a Lord who forgives sins and punishes for sins.

 

Do what you wish, for I have forgiven you.

 

 

 

It was related by Muslim (also by al-Bukhari).

 

Text copied from Al-Nasir’s Hadith Qudsi Software v1.0, www.DivineIslam.com

Human thoughts on meeting Allah and Fear of Death

If My servant likes to meet Me, I like to meet him; and if he dislikes to meet Me, I dislike to meet him. Prophetic explanation of this Sacred Hadith: He who likes to meet Allah, Allah likes to meet him; and he who dislikes to meet Allah, Allah dislikes to meet him. Aishah (may Allah be pleased with her) said: O Prophet of Allah, is it because of the dislike of death, for all of us dislike death? The Prophet (pbuh) said: It is not so, but rather it is that when the believer is given news of Allah’s mercy, His approval and His Paradise, he likes to meet Allah and Allah likes to meet him; but when the unbeliever is given news of Allah’s punishment and His displeasure, he dislikes to meet Allah and Allah dislikes to meet him.

 

It was related by al-Bukhari and Malik. The Prophetic version is related by Muslim.

 

Text copied from Al-Nasir’s Hadith Qudsi Software v1.0, www.DivineIslam.com

 

The Poor but true believer is Most favoured by Allah

Allah Said: Truly of those devoted to Me the one I most favour is a believer who is of meagre means and much given to prayer, who has been particular in the worship of his Lord and has obeyed Him inwardly (*), who was obscure among people and not pointed our, and whose sustenance was just sufficient to provide for him yet he bore this patiently. Then the Prophet (pbuh) rapped his hand and said: Death will have come early to him, his mourners will have been few, his estate scant.

 

(*) i.e. he has not been ostentatious in his obedience.

 

It was related by at-Tirmidhi (also by Ahmad ibn Hanbal and Ibn Majah).

 

Its Isnad (chain of authorities) is sound.

 

Text copied from Al-Nasir’s Hadith Qudsi Software v1.0, www.DivineIslam.com

Allah’s Mercy and Generosity

Allah (glorified and exalted be He) has supernumerary angels who rove about seeking out gatherings in which Allah’s name is being invoked: they sit with them and fold their wings round each other, filling that which is between them and between the lowest heaven.

 

When [the people in the gathering] depart, [the angels] ascend and rise up to heaven.

 

He (the Prophet PBUH) said: Then Allah (mighty and sublime be He) asks them – [though] He is most knowing about them: From where have you come?

 

And they say: We have come from some servants of Yours on Earth: they were glorifying You (Subhanallah), exalting you (Allahu-Akbar), witnessing that there is no god but You (La ilaha illa llah), praising You (Al-Hamdu Lillah), and asking [favours] of You.

 

He says: And what do they ask of Me?

They say: They ask of You Your Paradise.

 

He says: And have they seen My Paradise?

They say: No, O Lord.

 

He says: And how would it be were they to have seen My Paradise!

They say: And they ask protection of You.

 

He says: From what do they ask protection of Me?

They say: From Your Hell-fire, O Lord.

 

He says: And have they seen My Hell-fire?

They say: NO.

 

He says: And how would it be were they to have seen My Hell-fire:

They say: And they ask for Your forgiveness.

 

He (the Prophet PBUH) said: Then He says: I have forgiven them and I have bestowed upon them what they have asked for,and I have granted them sanctuary from that from which they asked protection.

 

He (the Prophet PBUH) said: They say: O Lord, among them is So-and-so, a much sinning servant, who was merely passing by and sat down with them.

 

He (the Prophet PBUH) said: And He says: And to him [too] I have given forgiveness: he who sits with such people shall not suffer.

 

 

 

It was related by Muslim (also by al-Bukhari, at-Tirmidhi, and an-Nasa’i).

 

Text copied from Al-Nasir’s Hadith Qudsi Software v1.0, www.DivineIslam.com

Virtues of Fasting

Fasting is Mine and it is I who give reward for it. [A man] gives up his sexual passion, his food and his drink for my sake. Fasting is like a shield, and he who fasts has two joys: a joy whin he breaks his fast and a joy when he meets his Lord. The change in the breath of the mouth of him who fasts is better in Allah’s estimation than the smell of musk.

 

It was related by al-Bukhari (also by Muslim, Malik, at-Tirmidhi, an-Nasa’i and Ibn Majah).

 

Text copied from Al-Nasir’s Hadith Qudsi Software v1.0, www.DivineIslam.com

Impressing others @_@

The first of people against whom judgment will be pronounced on the Day of Resurrection will be a man who died a martyr.He will be brought and Allah will make known to him His favours and he will recognize them.[The Almighty] will say: And what did you do about them?

He will say: I fought for you until I died a martyr.

He will say: You have lied – you did but fight that it might be said [of you]: He is courageous.And so it was said.Then he will be ordered to be dragged along on his face until he is cast into Hell-fire.

 

 

[Another] will be a man who has studied [religious] knowledge and has taught it and who used to recite the Quran. He will be brought and Allah will make known to his His favours and he will recognize them. [The Almighty] will say: And what did you do about them? He will say: I studied [religious] knowledge and I taught it and I recited the Quran for Your sake. He will say: You have lied – you did but study [religious] knowledge that it might be said [of you]: He is learned. And you recited the Quran that it might be said [of you]: He is a reciter. And so it was said. Then he will be ordered to be dragged along on his face until he is cast into Hell-fire.

 

 

[Another] will be a man whom Allah had made rich and to whom He had given all kinds of wealth. He will be brought and Allah will make known to his His favours and he will recognize them. [The Almighty] will say: And what did you do about them? He will say: I left no path [untrodden] in which You like money to be spent without spending in it for Your sake. He will say: You have lied – you did but do so that it might be said [of you]: He is open-handed. And so it was said. Then he will be ordered to be dragged along on his face until he is cast into Hell-fire.

 

 

 

It was related by Muslim (also by at-Tirmidhi and an-Nasa’i).

 

Text copied from Al-Nasir’s Hadith Qudsi Software v1.0, www.DivineIslam.com